i make it straight:
-in a 1 vs. 1 league another guy and me had the same score but i had 54 points more than him
-he was involved in his last match with another one.
i checked their match and ... let's say at turn 20 ,with some 40 points each, they burned reciprocally their engines in a front attack.
-So the match would be tied in any case because if you are not an a$$$$ole (and they are good pilots) you don't get shot with obliged moves like 9r1 and 2s1.
-their match ended some 69 to 65 !!!!
(and he won the league)
does it make it clear?!!

Perhaps if you had made it this clear to begin with this post wouldn't have lasted this long. You could have projected your "sour grapes" much earlier. It's just a game. We all have lost games and leagues by the actions of others and ourselves. That's how it goes. Play more, kill often and try again. We're all here because it's as fun as it is aggrevating.