The trick is to realize that for some of these posters, trying to upset folks is their game. You can't believe what they say. If what they say is honestly felt, how tragic their situation must really be.

We also have those who simply view things far differently than we might. They may be simple minded, naive, or possibly even correct.

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To be completely honest. I don't even want to see the spastics leave. Just to shape up and learn how to converse in a reasonable fashion.